Our Beautiful Daughter, Miao

Our Beautiful Daughter, Miao

Our Precious Son, Sterling

Our Precious Son, Sterling

Monday, September 6, 2010

Moon Festival Gifts

Care package for Miao in honor of Moon Festival

We sent another care package to Miao in honor of the national holiday, "Moon Festival" also known as "Mid-Autumn Festival"  Our care package was sent via Gifts To China With Love. 

The care package service is working toward putting together a party to include the other families children, that also sent a Moon Festival care package.  Miao should return to the orphanage for Moon Festival, as she returns with each major holiday in China.  It will be great if the director agrees to allow these children to celebrate together because Miao will be at the orphanage, with the other children!  We know a few other families that have children at the orphanage and are also participating in the Moon Festival party.

What is Moon Festival?
One of the few most important holidays on the Chinese calendar, others being Chinese New Year and Winter Solstice and is a legal holiday in several countries. 

On one autumn evening each year, (this year it is September 22) people throughout China celebrate Mid-Autumn Festival ie: Moon Festival.  Like Thanksgiving, this is a time for families to gather and give thanks. 

On the traditional Chinese calendar, the Moon Festival is celebrated on the 15th day of the 8th lunar month when the moon is at its fullest.  On our Western calendar, that translates to a different date each year, between mid September to early October.

Traditionally on this day, families and friends will gather, to admire the bright mid-autumn harvest moon and eat moon cakes and pomelas under the moon together. 

For generations, moon cakes have been made with sweet fillings of nuts, mashed red beans, lotus-seed paste or Chinese dates wrapped in a pastry.  Sometimes a cooked egg can be found in the middle of the rich tasting dessert.  People compare moon cakes to the plum pudding and fruit cakes which are served in the English holiday season.

Our Care Package to Miao
We sent Miao a Mid-Autumn care package that included the popular moon cakes, a bag of candy, fresh fruit and a disposable camera.  We also added in the package, a t-shirt and a letter.  Our letter was in response to the last letter she wrote us.  She asked for additional information on her new school, her bedroom and her concern with making friends.  She very much sounds like a typical teen, friends are the utmost important factor in a girls life at this age.  She's concerned over how to make friends given the language barrier.  She's excited about her new family but is anxious and nervous about the move.  In each of our letters, we try very hard to convey the message that we understand her concerns and are here to help and have explained to her ways we plan to help overcome each anxiety she mentions.  We also convey repeatedly that we are her forever family, she will be our daughter forever and how much we love her.  Please pray with us that God will fill Miao's heart with a sense of peace.  While she is excited about a new family.....she's also very nervous.

Pictures of her Moon Festival Gifts:


Moon Festival Care Package
Our Letter to Miao

Hello Kitty T-Shirt, an extra gift we added

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Little Brother, Sterling!

While this blog is dedicated to Miao's adoption journey, we decided to include our family happenings, while waiting to bring our beautiful daughter, home!

Here are pictures of family night, last weekend when we all contributed to the preparation of brownies. 

Sterling has been home with us for 9 months and 14 days.....while we recently learned he has a severe speech delay, tonight he learned to sign and partially speak, "I love you, mama" and "I love you, dada."  We've been working on this one for about a week.  A very special Labor Day weekend!



My Very Own Apron

Watching The Brownies Cook



I800 Reaches Destination

Our I800 application reached its destination as anticipated, on 8/31/10 and signed for at 8:41 am!!!  We'll patiently wait another week, allowing 2 weeks and call the USCIS for a status. 

Here are the final steps toward bringing Miao home:

I800 Received by USCIS: 8/31
I800 Approval:
NVC Letter:

Article 5:
Travel Approval:
Forever Family Day/ie: Adoption Day:

We are getting close...only 4 more steps before travel and the 5th step, WE ARE THERE!!!  I'm looking to other families to learn the current wait time from LSC (Letter Seeking Confirmation) until receiving the TA.  A travel approval is required for travel to China and all the paperwork we are curretly completing and waiting are all required for the travel approval. 

Sterling's adoption was 2 months to the date, with the LSC arriving 9/11 and the TA arriving 11/11...we are praying Miao's TA comes equally as quick..or quicker. 

I will speak with the principal at my school about the upcoming plans to take FMLA.  It's feeling more real with each day!!  We've been waiting since the end of October, 2009, almost a year and the wait has seemed so long but now, we are beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel!!

A couple of families we've been communicating with who also have older daughters at the GZ orphanage are now traveling to bring their girls home.  One family returned this past weekend and the other family, departs this upcoming Friday.  It's exciting to watch the unfolding of their adoption!!  We are thrilled for them and look for the day when it is "our turn"!!!

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

New Pictures!!

We received new pictures of our daughter holding the bags of items we sent her via Gifts To China With Love.

http://www.giftstochinawithlove.com/

The picture reflects the date, 9/1..it's still 8/31 for us here in the US but given the 13 hour time difference, it's morning in China. What a great way to kick off the month of September!!


Our beautiful daughter, Miao!!

Sunday, August 29, 2010

A Name for Miao

The big question....her name

We have been asked over and over, what will be her name. 

Honestly, this has been a puzzle to us, too.  So much a puzzle that we are delayed returning the LOA and DS230.  We have discussed, prayed and spent many late nights over this very discussion. 

The name has been determined but out of respect for Miao, we will not discuss or share until we first speak with her.  It is only fair that a young girl her age, have our respect and be the first to know and express her thoughts.

With that said,  tomorrow the LOA and DS230 will be mailed to our adoption agency!!!

I800 Mailed TODAY!!!!

We mailed the I800 today, Sunday, 8/29) via Fed Ex with overnight, am delivery.  It will arrive on Tuesday morning.  The I800 is the first of several steps toward the TA or TRAVEL APPROVAL!!! 

While it's still a bit early, we are beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel!!!  There are several more steps to accomplish but thank goodness, we can now say, working toward our TRAVEL APPROVAL!!

We also received word from email friends that are currently in China adopting their daughter, that our package we sent them to deliver to Miao is on it's way to her!!!  They handed it off to someone who is going to deliver it.  We sent her a T-shirt, wrist watch and Tootsie Rolls.  She loves chocolate and Tootsie Rolls was the only candy I could think of that wouldn't easily melt.  Many thanks to this dear family for hand carrying our package!!

Sterling's Passport

LITTLE BROTHER'S PASSPORT ARRIVES!!!

We received Sterling's passport in the mail.  It didn't take long and fortunately, arrived early and in plenty of time for travel.  Next step is family visa!!  Daddy already has a standing visa due to business travel but mom and Sterling must apply for one.  Fortunately with dad's business travel, our visa will be good for a solid year. 

We are doing everything possible ahead of time to bring Miao home, as soon as possible!!!

We love you, Miao!
Mom, Dad & Sterling


Miao's Little Brother

Another Step Closer to Travel