It is with great sadness to say that our daugther will not be returning home with us. As it turns out, we were one of three options our daughter had for her future....two of her options allowed her to remain in China and with a safe future. She chose not to be adopted and at her age, the choice is hers. The guide and orphange showed up unexpectantly during our lunch, the day we were to sign the final paper work. We knew it wasn't going well but thought it was part of the process of adoption with an older child. We had no idea the depth of the situation. The orphanage representatives and our guide spoke with her for 30 minutes and when leaving, they took her back with them to the orphange. We were completely caught off-gurd. It was very unexpectant. It was very sad.
This is a very rare situation and our guide who has handled adoptions for many years, says this is a first time she has seen this happen. We are sad and our hearts are heavy.
While this trip has been one of great sadness, we are thankful for the friends we've met on this journey, Sheila, Annie, Karen, Jagi, Beth, Kim, Kai, Johnny, Poppie, Stowell Family, Apryl and many others who have in one way or another touched our lives in a positve manner....the GSWI group has offered great support. Our guide Connie, handled our situation in a professional but personal manner. We could not have asked for a better guide. Our agency reached out to us, immediately. We are thankful to the friends and family God has placed in our path during our time of great sadness.
Once we return home, we will be on a plane 2 days later to get away as a family and begin to place this behind us and begin to heal. We're not ready for questions or to discuss in detail.
PS: It was very sad also knowing that Sterling was begining to accept her and was holding her hand when we walked out in public. The following morning, after she was gone, Sterling ran into the living area, searching for her. We had to tell him, she was gone. He did this for 2 solid mornings, before realizing she was not returning.
As most of you know, Sterling has been in our family for 1 year. He is the joy in our lives! There are still many concepts he does not understand and fortunately in this siutation, he had not yet understood what it meant to have a sister.
Saturday, December 4, 2010
Wednesday, December 1, 2010
Meeting Miao
Miao is a beautiful girl!
11/29/10: Gotcha Day or as we refer to it, "Family Day" held a wide realm of emotions for all. While we were filled with anticipation and excitement, Miao was sad, apprehensive and overwhelmed, as to be expected when after 13 years of the same routine, friendships and a foster father, she must leave it all behind.
She came with a suitecase of clothes and a cell phone from her foster father. We asked the guide to interpret that we love her, care for her and want her to be safe, asking her to always stay with us. We must stay together as a family during activities. She was asking to go to the bank alone but through the guide, we explained we must go together as a family. We will help her withdraw her funds, exchange to US dollars and ensure she has all of her money. We will not take any of her money. We were told the money was savings when the orphanage would send a monthly expense to her at school. She never spent it. I'm thinking possibly the foster father set-up the account for her. We don't know for sure only what Miao told us, through the interpreter.
We were at the Civil Affairs office for hours. There were many families meeting their children. After meeting Miao and completing the necessary paperwork required on the first day, we decided best to return to the hotel and have a low-key evening. We at dinner at the hotel and called it a night.
She and I sat in the living room together. She was sad and didn't make much eye contact. I extended comfort by providing her tissues when she started to cry. I wanted to hug her but didn't want to overwhelm her with affection. We were all exhausted from the day and fell asleep by 9:00 pm.
11/29/10: Gotcha Day or as we refer to it, "Family Day" held a wide realm of emotions for all. While we were filled with anticipation and excitement, Miao was sad, apprehensive and overwhelmed, as to be expected when after 13 years of the same routine, friendships and a foster father, she must leave it all behind.
She came with a suitecase of clothes and a cell phone from her foster father. We asked the guide to interpret that we love her, care for her and want her to be safe, asking her to always stay with us. We must stay together as a family during activities. She was asking to go to the bank alone but through the guide, we explained we must go together as a family. We will help her withdraw her funds, exchange to US dollars and ensure she has all of her money. We will not take any of her money. We were told the money was savings when the orphanage would send a monthly expense to her at school. She never spent it. I'm thinking possibly the foster father set-up the account for her. We don't know for sure only what Miao told us, through the interpreter.
We were at the Civil Affairs office for hours. There were many families meeting their children. After meeting Miao and completing the necessary paperwork required on the first day, we decided best to return to the hotel and have a low-key evening. We at dinner at the hotel and called it a night.
She and I sat in the living room together. She was sad and didn't make much eye contact. I extended comfort by providing her tissues when she started to cry. I wanted to hug her but didn't want to overwhelm her with affection. We were all exhausted from the day and fell asleep by 9:00 pm.
Sunday, November 28, 2010
Waiting To Meet Miao
Preparing for a special day
We've been up since very early morning, Earl around 3:00 and myself shortly thereafter. Fortunately, Sterling seems to have had a good night's sleep, even though he woke at 4:00 am, immediately asking to eat. Thankfully, just moments before he woke, daddy had called room service to order food.
Sterling feel asleep around 8:00 pm last night, after a vigorous day of walking, swimming and playing. It was a great day yesterday with time spent on the beautiful island, Shamian Island. We spent about 5 hours relaxing at the Starbucks, walking around, taking pictures and discussing what Miao may be thinking during her last night at the orphanage.
After leaving the island, we returned to the hotel for lunch and to began unpacking Miao's luggage and preparing the room for her arrival. We have a mini-suite (thanks to dad's many travel points) and decided she will sleep in the living area, to allow her privacy, while the rest of us sleeps in the bedroom. Sterling is very happy with a pallet on the floor...funny, even at home, he is known to often get out of his bed and make a pallet on the floor. The kid loves sleeping on the floor.
Once we unpacked Miao's luggage, we all went for a swim at the hotel and believe it or not, on floor 22, Sterling spotted a playground across the street. Once we were done swimming, he continued asking to go play at the playground. Our evening was spent at the playground. The weather was and had been, perfect!
We look toward the day with anticipation! We are starting to decorate the hotel room with the banner and balloons, to welcome her home. We purchased Sterling a shirt on Shamian Island that says "little brother" in Chinese for him to wear today. We also learned last night that a family we've been in close contact with throughout the adoption, who also is adopting a 13 year old daughter from the same orphanage, will also be at the CCAA to meet their daughter. We will all be at the CCAA, together!!
We've seen many blessings throughout this adoption and God continues to show Himself in a mighty way!!! We learned only this morning that our plan for the McDonald's party just may happen!!! A total God thing. Originally, our travel agency said it wasn't possible, our friend attempted through her travel agency and that didn't work out and she also contacted a care package service for assistance and after much time and effort on their part it wasn't working out either.
This morning, as Earl was reading over the schedule for the week, on the day we visit the orphange, it also noted we are going to the local McDonald's for a party with some friends at the orphanage for our daughter. It took us by total surprise, because the original schedule did not list a party and when sending the final schedule, our travel contact stated, "no changes" same schedule as provided earlier. Thank goodness, I brought the party bags just in case something changed. By the grace of God, looks as though it did change!
We are scheduled to meet Miao at 2:30 today, which is 2:30 am Sunday night back home...so, when our family and friends wake on Monday morning, Miao will be in our family!!!
We've been up since very early morning, Earl around 3:00 and myself shortly thereafter. Fortunately, Sterling seems to have had a good night's sleep, even though he woke at 4:00 am, immediately asking to eat. Thankfully, just moments before he woke, daddy had called room service to order food.
Sterling feel asleep around 8:00 pm last night, after a vigorous day of walking, swimming and playing. It was a great day yesterday with time spent on the beautiful island, Shamian Island. We spent about 5 hours relaxing at the Starbucks, walking around, taking pictures and discussing what Miao may be thinking during her last night at the orphanage.
After leaving the island, we returned to the hotel for lunch and to began unpacking Miao's luggage and preparing the room for her arrival. We have a mini-suite (thanks to dad's many travel points) and decided she will sleep in the living area, to allow her privacy, while the rest of us sleeps in the bedroom. Sterling is very happy with a pallet on the floor...funny, even at home, he is known to often get out of his bed and make a pallet on the floor. The kid loves sleeping on the floor.
Once we unpacked Miao's luggage, we all went for a swim at the hotel and believe it or not, on floor 22, Sterling spotted a playground across the street. Once we were done swimming, he continued asking to go play at the playground. Our evening was spent at the playground. The weather was and had been, perfect!
We look toward the day with anticipation! We are starting to decorate the hotel room with the banner and balloons, to welcome her home. We purchased Sterling a shirt on Shamian Island that says "little brother" in Chinese for him to wear today. We also learned last night that a family we've been in close contact with throughout the adoption, who also is adopting a 13 year old daughter from the same orphanage, will also be at the CCAA to meet their daughter. We will all be at the CCAA, together!!
We've seen many blessings throughout this adoption and God continues to show Himself in a mighty way!!! We learned only this morning that our plan for the McDonald's party just may happen!!! A total God thing. Originally, our travel agency said it wasn't possible, our friend attempted through her travel agency and that didn't work out and she also contacted a care package service for assistance and after much time and effort on their part it wasn't working out either.
This morning, as Earl was reading over the schedule for the week, on the day we visit the orphange, it also noted we are going to the local McDonald's for a party with some friends at the orphanage for our daughter. It took us by total surprise, because the original schedule did not list a party and when sending the final schedule, our travel contact stated, "no changes" same schedule as provided earlier. Thank goodness, I brought the party bags just in case something changed. By the grace of God, looks as though it did change!
We are scheduled to meet Miao at 2:30 today, which is 2:30 am Sunday night back home...so, when our family and friends wake on Monday morning, Miao will be in our family!!!
Sunday Blog
It's Sunday afternoon and in exactly 24 hours, we will meet Miao! The 2 other families we've been in close contact with who are also adopting older girls, meet their daughters today. We keep thinking the phone may ring with it being the orphanage bringing Miao to us early but it hasn't happened yet. Thankfully because we are still unpacking Miao's suitecase and getting things set up for her arrival.
Our luggage arrived during the night, last night but not before being awaken 3 or 4 times with phone calls regarding them. Thankfully, when waking this morning, they were here! YEA..nothing like having your own toiletries and clean clothes.
We had a great day, spending time on Shamian Island. It's a beautiful island that is "known" for adoptive families. Two very popular hotels that are frequent by adoptive families are located on this island along with the medical clinic that all adoptive children must pass through.
We meet Miao in exactly 24 hours at 2:30 on Monday, 11/29. Back at home in Texas, it will be 2:30 am on Sunday night/Monday morning. We are excited and nervous. We are most nervous for our daughter and all the realm of emotions that must be passing through her thoughts today. She is 13 years old, has lived in the same place all of her life and tomorrow, her world will completely change. We've always said, Miao and Sterling are two of the most courageous and bravest individuals we will ever meet. Miao has never met us, yet she will take our hand and travel 1/2 way around the world to start a new life. That takes more courage than I will ever possess. We are blessed beyond measure to be chosen as her parents!
Our luggage arrived during the night, last night but not before being awaken 3 or 4 times with phone calls regarding them. Thankfully, when waking this morning, they were here! YEA..nothing like having your own toiletries and clean clothes.
We had a great day, spending time on Shamian Island. It's a beautiful island that is "known" for adoptive families. Two very popular hotels that are frequent by adoptive families are located on this island along with the medical clinic that all adoptive children must pass through.
We meet Miao in exactly 24 hours at 2:30 on Monday, 11/29. Back at home in Texas, it will be 2:30 am on Sunday night/Monday morning. We are excited and nervous. We are most nervous for our daughter and all the realm of emotions that must be passing through her thoughts today. She is 13 years old, has lived in the same place all of her life and tomorrow, her world will completely change. We've always said, Miao and Sterling are two of the most courageous and bravest individuals we will ever meet. Miao has never met us, yet she will take our hand and travel 1/2 way around the world to start a new life. That takes more courage than I will ever possess. We are blessed beyond measure to be chosen as her parents!
Saturday, November 27, 2010
Greetings From China
We Made It!!
We are finally here, safe and sound. Our journey wasn't quite as smooth as last year (running at full force through Tokyo airport, luggage didn't make the flight) but we finally reached the hotel at about 11:30 PM last night. Our luggage is still in Tokyo but expected to arrive our hotel, late tonight. There is only 1 flight between Tokyo and Guangzhou and just our luck, it doesn't arrive GZ until 9:30 tonight. Either way, we welcome our luggage at any hour of the night!!!
It's 7:15pm on Saturday and I'm finally starting to feel somewhat coherent. We walked around the local mall today, "Tee-Mall' and ate lunch at McDonald's. We attempted to eat at the Pizza Hut but goodness, there was a very long line waiting to be seated. We opted out and crossed the street for McDonald's. Thank goodness for the golden arches when traveling abroad! McDonald's, KFC & Starbucks are quite popular here!
We are anxious for our luggage to arrive so we can unpack, have clean clothes, toiletries and our party goods. We plan to have a little, "welcome home" party in the hotel room with banners and balloons.
Only 2 days until we meet our beautiful daughter!
We are finally here, safe and sound. Our journey wasn't quite as smooth as last year (running at full force through Tokyo airport, luggage didn't make the flight) but we finally reached the hotel at about 11:30 PM last night. Our luggage is still in Tokyo but expected to arrive our hotel, late tonight. There is only 1 flight between Tokyo and Guangzhou and just our luck, it doesn't arrive GZ until 9:30 tonight. Either way, we welcome our luggage at any hour of the night!!!
It's 7:15pm on Saturday and I'm finally starting to feel somewhat coherent. We walked around the local mall today, "Tee-Mall' and ate lunch at McDonald's. We attempted to eat at the Pizza Hut but goodness, there was a very long line waiting to be seated. We opted out and crossed the street for McDonald's. Thank goodness for the golden arches when traveling abroad! McDonald's, KFC & Starbucks are quite popular here!
We are anxious for our luggage to arrive so we can unpack, have clean clothes, toiletries and our party goods. We plan to have a little, "welcome home" party in the hotel room with banners and balloons.
Only 2 days until we meet our beautiful daughter!
Thursday, November 25, 2010
China Bound-Tomorrow AM!!
I will bring your children from the east and gather you from the west. Isaiah 43:5
It's finally here.....it's been a tough couple of weeks but finally, it's time for us to leave!! We've been going non-stop rushing around gathering all that we need, getting the house in order, gathering copies of documents needed for the adoption, packing, trying to sort out problems with BOTIS a travel agency our adoption agency recommeneded and the list goes on BUT, once we board that plane, it's all a distant memory and what's been done is done....and what isn't, won't get done. The best news ever is that we are bringing our beautiful daughter home!!!
We have a direct flight from Houston to Tokyo....a short lay-over and then on to Guangzhou!! We'll be in GZ the entire trip....17 days! Our flight time will be approximately 18 hours and we will arrive our hotel, 24-25 hours after leaving Houston.
We meet our daughter on Monday, 11/29. Her orphange is known for bringing children to their parents at the hotel a day early...so there's a chance we may be meeting Miao on Sunday, 11/28. We'll see what happens. We plan to decorate the hotel room with a "Welcome Home" banner, balloons and decorations.
The weather is very warm in GZ these days...much like the temperatures in Houston except it's not predicted to be in the 80's, as it has been this week in Houston. We plan to do lots of swimming!! (our hotel has an indoor swimming pool, which will help if for any reason the temperatures aren't as warm as predicted)
We learned late tonight that our daughter is aware that we are coming and she wanted to know if her father is coming and who exactly was coming for her.
Well, it's 12:30am and my alarm will be going off in 3 hours, so best close for now.
Blessings to all & Happy Thanksgiving!!
It's finally here.....it's been a tough couple of weeks but finally, it's time for us to leave!! We've been going non-stop rushing around gathering all that we need, getting the house in order, gathering copies of documents needed for the adoption, packing, trying to sort out problems with BOTIS a travel agency our adoption agency recommeneded and the list goes on BUT, once we board that plane, it's all a distant memory and what's been done is done....and what isn't, won't get done. The best news ever is that we are bringing our beautiful daughter home!!!
We have a direct flight from Houston to Tokyo....a short lay-over and then on to Guangzhou!! We'll be in GZ the entire trip....17 days! Our flight time will be approximately 18 hours and we will arrive our hotel, 24-25 hours after leaving Houston.
We meet our daughter on Monday, 11/29. Her orphange is known for bringing children to their parents at the hotel a day early...so there's a chance we may be meeting Miao on Sunday, 11/28. We'll see what happens. We plan to decorate the hotel room with a "Welcome Home" banner, balloons and decorations.
The weather is very warm in GZ these days...much like the temperatures in Houston except it's not predicted to be in the 80's, as it has been this week in Houston. We plan to do lots of swimming!! (our hotel has an indoor swimming pool, which will help if for any reason the temperatures aren't as warm as predicted)
We learned late tonight that our daughter is aware that we are coming and she wanted to know if her father is coming and who exactly was coming for her.
Well, it's 12:30am and my alarm will be going off in 3 hours, so best close for now.
Blessings to all & Happy Thanksgiving!!
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
1 Year Family Anniversary w/Sterling
Today is 1 year that Sterling brought us blessings & joy!
We are abundantly blessed! How quickly time has passed. Our once timid, withdrawn and shy little boy has blossomed into one who enjoys other children and his friends, doesn't let his lack of speech stop him from communicating with others and lights up a room with his smile and laughter!
The orphange wouldn't believe he is the same little boy they once knew...the little boy they suspected as having autism and had never spoke a single word, baby-like in many ways and able to wear 18 month old clothing at almost 4 years old. Fast forward today, he's grown 6 inches and gained 10 lbs,
We are blessed beyond words!!
Forever Family Day- 11/23/09
We are abundantly blessed! How quickly time has passed. Our once timid, withdrawn and shy little boy has blossomed into one who enjoys other children and his friends, doesn't let his lack of speech stop him from communicating with others and lights up a room with his smile and laughter!
The orphange wouldn't believe he is the same little boy they once knew...the little boy they suspected as having autism and had never spoke a single word, baby-like in many ways and able to wear 18 month old clothing at almost 4 years old. Fast forward today, he's grown 6 inches and gained 10 lbs,
We are blessed beyond words!!
Forever Family Day- 11/23/09
Trouble posting additional pictures....stay tuned, more to come!!!
Showers of Blessings
I will send down showers in season; I will send down showers of blessings. Ezekiel 35:26
This is a strong truth for our family.....our adoption has shown to be one blessing after another, right up to the very end of our waiting......
We've been praying since the start of Miao's adoption to meet other families adopting 13 year old girls. God allowed these prayers to be fruitful, this past July, when receiving an email with the subject line-"searching for Texas family adopting Huang Miao." I was left speechless when viewing the email. It was a family reaching out to us. Their daughter, who was adopted last October, is friends with Miao. They learned about us through Miao. This was our first connection with a family adopting a 13 year old.....but one step better, they had met our daughter and both girls are friends!
Once we started corresponding with this particular family, we quickly connected with 3 other families also adopting older girls from the same orphanage as Miao! We emailed one another throughout the summer and continued while 2 of the families (recently) traveled to bring their daughters home. That left 2 of us still waiting....well, to our wonder, we are now traveling at the same time! YES, we will be in China with our new-found friend, adopting our girls together, at the same time! We have the blessing of meeting in person and hanging out together during the stay in China.
The blessings don't stop here.
The last family we met through email is a family also adopting a 13 year old daughter AND, lives right here in the Houston area!!! We will have the blessing of living near another family with a 13 yo from China AND.... we are traveling at the same time!!!!
Our prayers have been fruitful......we are thankful for the shower of blessings that continue to rain down on our family...GOD IS GREAT...ALL THE TIME!
This is a strong truth for our family.....our adoption has shown to be one blessing after another, right up to the very end of our waiting......
We've been praying since the start of Miao's adoption to meet other families adopting 13 year old girls. God allowed these prayers to be fruitful, this past July, when receiving an email with the subject line-"searching for Texas family adopting Huang Miao." I was left speechless when viewing the email. It was a family reaching out to us. Their daughter, who was adopted last October, is friends with Miao. They learned about us through Miao. This was our first connection with a family adopting a 13 year old.....but one step better, they had met our daughter and both girls are friends!
Once we started corresponding with this particular family, we quickly connected with 3 other families also adopting older girls from the same orphanage as Miao! We emailed one another throughout the summer and continued while 2 of the families (recently) traveled to bring their daughters home. That left 2 of us still waiting....well, to our wonder, we are now traveling at the same time! YES, we will be in China with our new-found friend, adopting our girls together, at the same time! We have the blessing of meeting in person and hanging out together during the stay in China.
The blessings don't stop here.
The last family we met through email is a family also adopting a 13 year old daughter AND, lives right here in the Houston area!!! We will have the blessing of living near another family with a 13 yo from China AND.... we are traveling at the same time!!!!
Our prayers have been fruitful......we are thankful for the shower of blessings that continue to rain down on our family...GOD IS GREAT...ALL THE TIME!
Sunday, November 21, 2010
Thanksgiving-A Special Meaning For Us
Thanks be to God, for He gives us the victory through Christ Jesus 1 Corinthians 15:57
Thanksgiving will always hold a special place in our family and have an extra special meaning.
It was Thanksgiving Day, 2009 when as a family, we shared our first Thanksgiving with Sterling! The very same day, we received approval from China (PA) to move forward with the adoption of our beautiful daughter, Miao!
Now, fast forward exactly one year-Thanksgiving 2010 and we are departing on Thanksgiving day for Guangzhou, China to bring our beautiful daughter home!
Yes, Thanksgiving will always be a blessed time for our family!
Thanksgiving will always hold a special place in our family and have an extra special meaning.
It was Thanksgiving Day, 2009 when as a family, we shared our first Thanksgiving with Sterling! The very same day, we received approval from China (PA) to move forward with the adoption of our beautiful daughter, Miao!
Now, fast forward exactly one year-Thanksgiving 2010 and we are departing on Thanksgiving day for Guangzhou, China to bring our beautiful daughter home!
Yes, Thanksgiving will always be a blessed time for our family!
Giving Thanks-Celebrating Thanksgiving
We Have Much To Be Thankful!!
This weekend has been non-stop, but today, we set aside a couple of hours to celebrate Thanksgiving as a family. Last year, we celebrated Thanksgiving in Nanjing, China and this year, we will be in-flight to Guangzhou, so we decided to celebrate early! Justin and Elizabeth joined us making the day complete. We were together as a family and have much to be thankful.
This weekend has been non-stop, but today, we set aside a couple of hours to celebrate Thanksgiving as a family. Last year, we celebrated Thanksgiving in Nanjing, China and this year, we will be in-flight to Guangzhou, so we decided to celebrate early! Justin and Elizabeth joined us making the day complete. We were together as a family and have much to be thankful.
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| Sterling's 1st Thanksgiving at Home |
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| Sterling & Dad having fun! |
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Big Brother & Elizabeth |
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Saturday, November 20, 2010
A Whirlwind Week!
It's All Coming Together!
Sorry we haven't posted. It's been a whirlwind week and obstacles trying to slow us down.
We received word on Monday morning at 11:25 that our TA reached the adoption agency. By Tuesday morning, had confirmation of our consulate appointment, (ie: US Consulate Appointment or better known as CA) and flights by lunch time!!!!
Earl was on the phone with Continental booking flights by lunch time Tuesday. After 2 hours and 40 minutes later, (yes, no exaggeration) our flights were booked! Earl had proactively reserved a hotel room several weeks ago, so it was only a matter of confirming the exact dates with the hotel.
China has several events taking place that are causing hotel rooms to book quickly. We didn't want to be forced to delay our travel should the TA arrive during one of the events, so Earl proactively reserved a hotel room for several weeks.
We are booked at the Hyatt in Guangzhou...not on Shamian Island. We didn't want to pay the astronomical prices and sleep on hard beds at the White Swan and besides, we prefer to be at a Western based hotel and Earl has elite status at the Hyatt, given all the business travel he has done to China. The Hyatt was a better fit for us. Last year when we were in Guangzhou with Sterling's adoption, we were at the Marriott, also off the island and it was only a short taxi drive to Shamian Island. Shamian Island is where the visa photo and medical clinic is located. Most adoptive families prefer to lodge on Shamian Island and at the White Swan or Victory hotel.
We've been working with our agency's travel contact to secure a guide/translator for our adoption related appointments and to schedule time at Miao's orphanage for a visit and a visit to Safari Park. (Safari Park-where one may feed the animals-like baby tigers-and pet them--I'm looking forward to this) We've been going back and forth because the price was MUCH more than we anticipated and the itinerary had extras we didn't want or need and didn't have a couple of items we requested. Long story, short, we are moving forward with our agency's requested guide, removed the "extras" that were added and working behind the scenes to schedule the 2 items we want but not able to schedule with this particular company.
NOTE those adoptive parents reading our blog: be prepared, this part of the adoption isn't discussed very often and when it is, the pricing isn't shared...the estimate our agency provided was WAY off...way off. Any adoptive parent that wants to know more details, we will gladly share! Contact us. Wish we had known this earlier in the process and had not been caught off-guard. Either way, we now have a guide/translator to help get us through the adoption process at the CCAA, The US Consulate and our daugther's passport & visa. YEA!!!!
Blessings to All!
Earl & Sharee
Sorry we haven't posted. It's been a whirlwind week and obstacles trying to slow us down.
We received word on Monday morning at 11:25 that our TA reached the adoption agency. By Tuesday morning, had confirmation of our consulate appointment, (ie: US Consulate Appointment or better known as CA) and flights by lunch time!!!!
Earl was on the phone with Continental booking flights by lunch time Tuesday. After 2 hours and 40 minutes later, (yes, no exaggeration) our flights were booked! Earl had proactively reserved a hotel room several weeks ago, so it was only a matter of confirming the exact dates with the hotel.
China has several events taking place that are causing hotel rooms to book quickly. We didn't want to be forced to delay our travel should the TA arrive during one of the events, so Earl proactively reserved a hotel room for several weeks.
We are booked at the Hyatt in Guangzhou...not on Shamian Island. We didn't want to pay the astronomical prices and sleep on hard beds at the White Swan and besides, we prefer to be at a Western based hotel and Earl has elite status at the Hyatt, given all the business travel he has done to China. The Hyatt was a better fit for us. Last year when we were in Guangzhou with Sterling's adoption, we were at the Marriott, also off the island and it was only a short taxi drive to Shamian Island. Shamian Island is where the visa photo and medical clinic is located. Most adoptive families prefer to lodge on Shamian Island and at the White Swan or Victory hotel.
We've been working with our agency's travel contact to secure a guide/translator for our adoption related appointments and to schedule time at Miao's orphanage for a visit and a visit to Safari Park. (Safari Park-where one may feed the animals-like baby tigers-and pet them--I'm looking forward to this) We've been going back and forth because the price was MUCH more than we anticipated and the itinerary had extras we didn't want or need and didn't have a couple of items we requested. Long story, short, we are moving forward with our agency's requested guide, removed the "extras" that were added and working behind the scenes to schedule the 2 items we want but not able to schedule with this particular company.
NOTE those adoptive parents reading our blog: be prepared, this part of the adoption isn't discussed very often and when it is, the pricing isn't shared...the estimate our agency provided was WAY off...way off. Any adoptive parent that wants to know more details, we will gladly share! Contact us. Wish we had known this earlier in the process and had not been caught off-guard. Either way, we now have a guide/translator to help get us through the adoption process at the CCAA, The US Consulate and our daugther's passport & visa. YEA!!!!
Blessings to All!
Earl & Sharee
Monday, November 15, 2010
TA TODAY!!!!
Isaiah 43:5-I will bring your children from the east and gather you from the west.
Blessings Shower Down
After all the prayers and wait, our TA arrived, TODAY!!!! Our agency received a total of 9 Travel Approvals and multiple LOA's. It was a great start to the week for many families.
One last step before we book travel. The Consulate Appointment or better known as the CA.
We must have a Consulate Appointment before we travel. We requested December 7 or 8 as our first two preferences. If we get one of these appointment dates, we will be flying out either Thanksgiving day or the day after. We are thrilled to be so close to bringing Miao home and home in time for Christmas!!! YEA!!
Blessings Shower Down
After all the prayers and wait, our TA arrived, TODAY!!!! Our agency received a total of 9 Travel Approvals and multiple LOA's. It was a great start to the week for many families.
One last step before we book travel. The Consulate Appointment or better known as the CA.
We must have a Consulate Appointment before we travel. We requested December 7 or 8 as our first two preferences. If we get one of these appointment dates, we will be flying out either Thanksgiving day or the day after. We are thrilled to be so close to bringing Miao home and home in time for Christmas!!! YEA!!
The Polar Express Train Ride
GREAT Way to Kick-Off The Holiday Season!
There is a train ride that runs from Palestine to Rusk, Texas that has runs year around with different themes. This time of year it's the "Polar Express" and it is a fabulous experience for any family!
The theme is the storybook & movie, "The Polar Express." The train ride starts off with hot chocolate and snacks served to everyone. The servers are dressed in chef outfit, just like the movie and they dance around and make the children laugh. Once all snacks are passed out, the story is read over the speaker while children follow along in the book.
The train stops at the North Pole, decorated with lights, Santa and his elves. Santa boards the train and it starts once again for the return ride back to the train station. Santa visits with every child on the train. The train ride is a little over an hour and, I failed to mention, everyone is encouraged to wear their pajamas. Fun, fun, fun!! The return train ride is very festive, with everyone singing Christmas Carols. If you happen to live anywhere in Texas, it's worth the drive! We drove almost 3 hours and we plan to do it again, next year.
Sterling was in HEAVEN throughout the entire ride. He was in complete awe over the train. He has a facination with trains..as with most every little boy. He shrilled with excitement when the train made it's grand entrance, steam, whistle and all!
There is a train ride that runs from Palestine to Rusk, Texas that has runs year around with different themes. This time of year it's the "Polar Express" and it is a fabulous experience for any family!
The theme is the storybook & movie, "The Polar Express." The train ride starts off with hot chocolate and snacks served to everyone. The servers are dressed in chef outfit, just like the movie and they dance around and make the children laugh. Once all snacks are passed out, the story is read over the speaker while children follow along in the book.
The train stops at the North Pole, decorated with lights, Santa and his elves. Santa boards the train and it starts once again for the return ride back to the train station. Santa visits with every child on the train. The train ride is a little over an hour and, I failed to mention, everyone is encouraged to wear their pajamas. Fun, fun, fun!! The return train ride is very festive, with everyone singing Christmas Carols. If you happen to live anywhere in Texas, it's worth the drive! We drove almost 3 hours and we plan to do it again, next year.
Sterling was in HEAVEN throughout the entire ride. He was in complete awe over the train. He has a facination with trains..as with most every little boy. He shrilled with excitement when the train made it's grand entrance, steam, whistle and all!
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
ANTICIPATION
Still Waiting for word on our TA
Remember the old ketchup commercial with the kid, waiting for the ketchup to pour from the bottle and it moved ever so slowly, as the song, "anticipation" was playing in the background...well, that's a little of what it's been like this week!!! Ever since learning we have a very strong chance of receiving our TA this week, the days are dragging by.....once the afternoon hits, I begin checking my cell phone repeatedly to ensure I haven't missed "THE" call from our agency. Torture.....complete torture.
I did some detective work this afternoon. I called an international shipping service and asked them how long it would take a letter package to arrive Delaware in the US (our agency's location) from Beijing, China and she quoted us, tomorrow, Thursday, 11/11 by 4:30 pm, providing there's no glitch with customs. So, there's still a chance we will see our TA, this week!! Another bit of hopeful news, other families who are aware their TA is coming in this batch, hasn't received their TA, either. So, the wait continues................
We viewed airline prices tonight to see how close we can book flights without them being astronomically high in price....it appears that even as short as 7 days, we can still manage reasonable prices. Thankfully, this buys us more time to receive our TA and in turn, contact China for our Consulate Appointment.
For those not familiar with China adoptions, it's both the TA and CA that are equally important with regards to travel. One must have TA to travel into China but a family must also have a CA before traveling.
Prayers for our TA & A SPEEDY TURN-AROUND WITH CA!!!
Remember the old ketchup commercial with the kid, waiting for the ketchup to pour from the bottle and it moved ever so slowly, as the song, "anticipation" was playing in the background...well, that's a little of what it's been like this week!!! Ever since learning we have a very strong chance of receiving our TA this week, the days are dragging by.....once the afternoon hits, I begin checking my cell phone repeatedly to ensure I haven't missed "THE" call from our agency. Torture.....complete torture.
I did some detective work this afternoon. I called an international shipping service and asked them how long it would take a letter package to arrive Delaware in the US (our agency's location) from Beijing, China and she quoted us, tomorrow, Thursday, 11/11 by 4:30 pm, providing there's no glitch with customs. So, there's still a chance we will see our TA, this week!! Another bit of hopeful news, other families who are aware their TA is coming in this batch, hasn't received their TA, either. So, the wait continues................
We viewed airline prices tonight to see how close we can book flights without them being astronomically high in price....it appears that even as short as 7 days, we can still manage reasonable prices. Thankfully, this buys us more time to receive our TA and in turn, contact China for our Consulate Appointment.
For those not familiar with China adoptions, it's both the TA and CA that are equally important with regards to travel. One must have TA to travel into China but a family must also have a CA before traveling.
Prayers for our TA & A SPEEDY TURN-AROUND WITH CA!!!
Sunday, November 7, 2010
It's Beginning to Look Alot Like.....
CHRISTMAS & THANKSGIVING!!
Please be in prayer with us as we await our travel approval AND receive confirmation of our consulate appointment that we may travel, the day after Thanksgiving!
As we prayerfully anticipate our travel approval arriving this week, we decided to begin decorating the house for Christmas, so that when we return home with our beautiful daughter, the house will be decorated and ready for Christmas! A first Christmas for both of our children. Sterling was home for Christmas last year, but had only been home a few weeks and was completely overwhelmed and oblivious to anything around him...this year, he will have a much better understanding and is already in awe over the decorations, especially the 12ft Christmas tree! The dinning room table is decorated for Thanksgiving, with a fun, child-like theme but the remainder of the house, looks like Christmas!
Please be in prayer with us as we await our travel approval AND receive confirmation of our consulate appointment that we may travel, the day after Thanksgiving!
Stockings are hung by the chimney with care....
Sterling's Christmas Train
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| Dinning Room Chandelier |
Our 12 Foot Christmas Tree
Indoor Wreath (one on each side of the tree)
Thanksgiving Table
Fun & Playful Place Setting
Mayflower & Turkeys
Saturday, November 6, 2010
Travel Approval-Could It Be?
This upcoming week???!!!
A batch of Travel Approvals were processed and on their way to the USA!!!
A family we've been in close contact with emailed today with news their travel approval is on its way from China!Their agency has a way of knowing when TA's are processed. We are sharing in their joy and pray they are able to travel at Thanksgiving.
The additional joy in all of this is that our Article 5 was delivered to the CCAA before this family....4 days earlier! Our Article 5 was delivered on 10/25 and this family's Article 5 was delivered on 10/29.
TA's are processed in batches. We have a strong feeling our TA was processed in this batch and now, making it's way to our adoption agency.
We also received an email from a different family to say they heard that 100 Travel Approvals were processed today...or rather last night, which is Friday, China time.
Prayers for TA next week!
A batch of Travel Approvals were processed and on their way to the USA!!!
A family we've been in close contact with emailed today with news their travel approval is on its way from China!Their agency has a way of knowing when TA's are processed. We are sharing in their joy and pray they are able to travel at Thanksgiving.
The additional joy in all of this is that our Article 5 was delivered to the CCAA before this family....4 days earlier! Our Article 5 was delivered on 10/25 and this family's Article 5 was delivered on 10/29.
TA's are processed in batches. We have a strong feeling our TA was processed in this batch and now, making it's way to our adoption agency.
We also received an email from a different family to say they heard that 100 Travel Approvals were processed today...or rather last night, which is Friday, China time.
Prayers for TA next week!
Friday, November 5, 2010
Family Christmas Pajamas
Mama has her matching Christmas pajamas!!
I've always thought it would be fun to have matching Christmas pajamas, as part of a holiday tradition. It never made sense in years past because it was only Earl and I and my grown son wouldn't be keen on Christmas pajamas, but now with the younger children, it's going to be fun! We are fanatic Disney fans and found the pajamas at the Disney Store. We also bought Christmas Mickey and Minnie stuffed animals, for Sterling & Miao.
I've always thought it would be fun to have matching Christmas pajamas, as part of a holiday tradition. It never made sense in years past because it was only Earl and I and my grown son wouldn't be keen on Christmas pajamas, but now with the younger children, it's going to be fun! We are fanatic Disney fans and found the pajamas at the Disney Store. We also bought Christmas Mickey and Minnie stuffed animals, for Sterling & Miao.
Saturday, October 30, 2010
Hotel Reservations in Guangzhou
COME ON, TRAVEL APPROVAL!!!
As of today, we have hotel reservations in Guanghzou!!! Earl has been working deligently toward getting our hotel reserved to ensure we have lodging once we receive TA. There are major events being held in Guangzhou, currently the Asian Games which are making it a challenge for families to find hotels for their adoption travel, especially those families wanting to travel quickly after receiving TA. No more sweating it for us, we have a hotel!!!!
Fortunately, with all the business travel Earl has done over the years to China, we are able to receive a discount, confirmation of the executive floor and couple of free nights! While we don't like daddy traveling on business, it is once again, paying off! Thank you daddy for all your hard work and many nights of waking at 2:00 am in the morning...while in China or back at home when readjusting to the time change!!!!
COME ON TA!!!! WE'RE READY AND WAITING.....AND A HOTEL ROOM RESERVED!!!! YEA!!!!!
Next stop on the list of things to do...purchase the gifts for China officials, orphanage director and general gifts for the orphanage children. Many other "to-do's" on our list but taking it one step at a time.......
As of today, we have hotel reservations in Guanghzou!!! Earl has been working deligently toward getting our hotel reserved to ensure we have lodging once we receive TA. There are major events being held in Guangzhou, currently the Asian Games which are making it a challenge for families to find hotels for their adoption travel, especially those families wanting to travel quickly after receiving TA. No more sweating it for us, we have a hotel!!!!
Fortunately, with all the business travel Earl has done over the years to China, we are able to receive a discount, confirmation of the executive floor and couple of free nights! While we don't like daddy traveling on business, it is once again, paying off! Thank you daddy for all your hard work and many nights of waking at 2:00 am in the morning...while in China or back at home when readjusting to the time change!!!!
COME ON TA!!!! WE'RE READY AND WAITING.....AND A HOTEL ROOM RESERVED!!!! YEA!!!!!
Next stop on the list of things to do...purchase the gifts for China officials, orphanage director and general gifts for the orphanage children. Many other "to-do's" on our list but taking it one step at a time.......
Friday, October 29, 2010
Sterling's First Halloween
Wow, hard to believe it’s already October and the end of October, at that!!! It’s now been 11 months that our lives were blessed with Sterling. 11 months of joy and love!!! Our son is very affectionate and a caring little boy. We’ve been blessed beyond words!
He celebrated his first Halloween party today, at school! He was pretty much at a loss with what was going on around him but at the end of the day, when leaving school and taking with him a bag of “goodies” he was giggling and smiling, ear-to-ear!!
The day started off with a costume parade of all the children at his school. Each class walked around outside, in front of parents. Sterling came to me a couple of times for hugs but overall, he did very well and remained seated with his class, while I sat across the way.
I took a day off work and so glad that I did…..it was a memorable day to have shared the parade and Halloween party, with him.
He celebrated his first Halloween party today, at school! He was pretty much at a loss with what was going on around him but at the end of the day, when leaving school and taking with him a bag of “goodies” he was giggling and smiling, ear-to-ear!!
The day started off with a costume parade of all the children at his school. Each class walked around outside, in front of parents. Sterling came to me a couple of times for hugs but overall, he did very well and remained seated with his class, while I sat across the way.
I took a day off work and so glad that I did…..it was a memorable day to have shared the parade and Halloween party, with him.
Tuesday, October 26, 2010
TA Joy For A Guangzhou Family!
I've been in touch with several families who are adopting older girls from the Guangzhou Orphanage. Of the families we've met via email, 3 familes have returned from China and started life as a new family.
Another family received their TA last Friday and today, received confirmation of the day they will be united with their daughter!!! It's always a joy to share in the excitement with other families who have become friends and have followed one another along the journey. Tonight, we are rejoicing with them in the joy of receiving their TA and CA!!!!
Sadly, Miao will be the last of the group of girls to come home. We are praying our TA is processed swiftly so that we can jet-over to China, ASAP!!!
Our dear friends did say that when arriving China, they will try hard to include our daughter at the McDonald's party. The only challenge is that our daughter is at the boarding school and our friend's daughter is at the orphanage, preparing for her family's arrival. Either way, they are going to try and include Miao. We are grateful for their thoughtfulness and generosity!
YEA SHEILA.....we are cheering you on and singing praises from Houston!
PS: If you're wondering about the McDonald's party. There seems to be a trend with the children being adopted. They want a party with their friends, to celebrate their new family. Of all the places, the children request McDonald's. The children consider it "special" having the opportunity to stand at a McDonald's counter and order their own food. Something they don't have an opportunity to do until families sponsor parties. Yes, we plan to have a party for Miao and include her friends and perhaps other children at the SWI who don't yet have families. More details to come as we get closer to travel. Another plan to be ironed out. It's not something that is customary but thanks to our wonderful care package service, Gifts To China With Love, they may be instrumental in assisting us in the planning.
Blessings,
Sharee
Another family received their TA last Friday and today, received confirmation of the day they will be united with their daughter!!! It's always a joy to share in the excitement with other families who have become friends and have followed one another along the journey. Tonight, we are rejoicing with them in the joy of receiving their TA and CA!!!!
Sadly, Miao will be the last of the group of girls to come home. We are praying our TA is processed swiftly so that we can jet-over to China, ASAP!!!
Our dear friends did say that when arriving China, they will try hard to include our daughter at the McDonald's party. The only challenge is that our daughter is at the boarding school and our friend's daughter is at the orphanage, preparing for her family's arrival. Either way, they are going to try and include Miao. We are grateful for their thoughtfulness and generosity!
YEA SHEILA.....we are cheering you on and singing praises from Houston!
PS: If you're wondering about the McDonald's party. There seems to be a trend with the children being adopted. They want a party with their friends, to celebrate their new family. Of all the places, the children request McDonald's. The children consider it "special" having the opportunity to stand at a McDonald's counter and order their own food. Something they don't have an opportunity to do until families sponsor parties. Yes, we plan to have a party for Miao and include her friends and perhaps other children at the SWI who don't yet have families. More details to come as we get closer to travel. Another plan to be ironed out. It's not something that is customary but thanks to our wonderful care package service, Gifts To China With Love, they may be instrumental in assisting us in the planning.
Blessings,
Sharee
Monday, October 25, 2010
OFFICIALLY WAITING TA!!!!!
IT'S OFFICIAL!!
We received an email from our agency, earlier today confirming the CCAA received our Article 5 and original signed LOI, TODAY!!!! So, as of today, 10/25 we are officially waiting TA!!!
We've been keeping watch on recent TA's and they seem to be coming in 2-3 weeks.
We are beginning to put plans in place for travel, details to make our daughter's homecoming and transition as smooth as possible and to place finishing touching in her bedroom.
Please pray with us the TA is received smoothly and swiftly!
Blessings,
Earl & Sharee
We received an email from our agency, earlier today confirming the CCAA received our Article 5 and original signed LOI, TODAY!!!! So, as of today, 10/25 we are officially waiting TA!!!
We've been keeping watch on recent TA's and they seem to be coming in 2-3 weeks.
We are beginning to put plans in place for travel, details to make our daughter's homecoming and transition as smooth as possible and to place finishing touching in her bedroom.
Please pray with us the TA is received smoothly and swiftly!
Blessings,
Earl & Sharee
Friday, October 22, 2010
Article 5--Still Sitting Idle
WE CONTINUE TO WAIT
Well, as we last wrote, our Article 5 has been sitting on someone's desk since 10/13 and it continues to sit.
As mentioned in our last post, the original, signed LOI (Letter of Intent to Adopt) must be with our paperwork before the TA (Travel Approval) will be processed.
We also learned this is not a new rule from China but rather a rule that has always been in place but not enforced. Now, China is enforcing it. Bad news: those families who are with agencies that have not been including the original, signed LOI are in our same situation.
We Fed Ex'd our original, signed LOI to Madison on Sunday with an overnight arrival. It arrived on Tuesday morning around 10:30. Madison mailed our signed LOI to China on Wednesday afternoon.
We've been told it may take 3-4 days to arrive and also told it may take 7 days. Let's pray it only takes the 3-4 days to arrive!!!!
Once our original, signed, LOI arrives, we'll be back on track!!!! We're very close and at the final steps required before travel---THE TRAVEL APPROVAL!!!!!
How close we are to travel:
-Signed LOI reaches agency contact in Beijing
-Contact in Beijing hand delivers our original, signed, LOI to CCAA-TA is processed
-CA is scheduled (Consulate Appointment)
-Flights are scheduled
Please pray with us our LOI arrives smoothly and quickly to China AND our TA has a speedy process!!!
PS: For those not familiar with international adoption, CA is the American Consulate Appointment. This is the final step before returning home from China. This step allows us to receive Miao's visa to return home and one of the final steps toward her becoming an American citizen when the plan touches down, in the US!
Blessings,
Earl & Sharee
Well, as we last wrote, our Article 5 has been sitting on someone's desk since 10/13 and it continues to sit.
As mentioned in our last post, the original, signed LOI (Letter of Intent to Adopt) must be with our paperwork before the TA (Travel Approval) will be processed.
We also learned this is not a new rule from China but rather a rule that has always been in place but not enforced. Now, China is enforcing it. Bad news: those families who are with agencies that have not been including the original, signed LOI are in our same situation.
We Fed Ex'd our original, signed LOI to Madison on Sunday with an overnight arrival. It arrived on Tuesday morning around 10:30. Madison mailed our signed LOI to China on Wednesday afternoon.
We've been told it may take 3-4 days to arrive and also told it may take 7 days. Let's pray it only takes the 3-4 days to arrive!!!!
Once our original, signed, LOI arrives, we'll be back on track!!!! We're very close and at the final steps required before travel---THE TRAVEL APPROVAL!!!!!
How close we are to travel:
-Signed LOI reaches agency contact in Beijing
-Contact in Beijing hand delivers our original, signed, LOI to CCAA-TA is processed
-CA is scheduled (Consulate Appointment)
-Flights are scheduled
Please pray with us our LOI arrives smoothly and quickly to China AND our TA has a speedy process!!!
PS: For those not familiar with international adoption, CA is the American Consulate Appointment. This is the final step before returning home from China. This step allows us to receive Miao's visa to return home and one of the final steps toward her becoming an American citizen when the plan touches down, in the US!
Blessings,
Earl & Sharee
Monday, October 18, 2010
Article 5 Sitting Idle-Wait for TA Extended
NEW RULINGS FROM CHINA
Unfortunately, our Article 5 is just sitting idle, due to a new ruling that was put in place last week...wouldn't ya know, our Article 5 was processed on Wednesday, 10/13 and now must be included with the new ruling.
I spoke with our agency this morning to learn that once our Article 5 was picked up, the courier mailed to it the agency's contact in Beijing. They use snail mail so it will take a few days to arrive. Our agency anticipates it will arrive Beijing around today or tomorrow.
BUT, now an additional step has been added to the process. China now requires an original signed LOA to be included in the package of Article 5 paperwork. This must be done before the travel approval will be processed. Those families who haven't received Article 5, the paperwork must be received before the Article 5 is processed.
Since the original is required, there's no email or wiring the document, our agency must mail it out....unfortuantely, adding extra time to our wait..extra weeks. Bummer!
We placed an original signed LOA in the mail yesterday, via Fed Ex. Fed Ex will pick up the document today and will arrive our agency by 10:30 tomorrow morning, 10/19. In turn, the agency will place it in the mail to China. They anticipate it will take about 3-4 days to arrive to the contact in Beijing.
Due to this new procedure our Article 5 will not be submitted to the CCAA for processing our TA until next week or worse case, the following week. It will depend upon how quickly Madison turns around our original signed LOA and places it in the mail for China and how quickly it is received. The agency anticipates turning it around by Tuesday afternoon or Wednesday morning.
Okay, let's look together at the new potential time line: (best guess scenario)
-10/19 original LOA reaches Madison
-10/20 Madison mails out original LOA
-10/25 Original LOA reaches contact in Beijing
-10/26 Original LOA & Article 5 sent to CCAA
The quicker TA's are currently taking approximately 2-3 weeks for processing. With God's favor, we'll be on the quicker time line--our daughter is anxious to come home and we are anxious to bring her home!!!!
We are keeping our prayes and thoughts on Miao and anxiously preparing for her homecoming!!! While it seems like it's never going to happen, in reality, it will be here soon!!!
Blessings
Unfortunately, our Article 5 is just sitting idle, due to a new ruling that was put in place last week...wouldn't ya know, our Article 5 was processed on Wednesday, 10/13 and now must be included with the new ruling.
I spoke with our agency this morning to learn that once our Article 5 was picked up, the courier mailed to it the agency's contact in Beijing. They use snail mail so it will take a few days to arrive. Our agency anticipates it will arrive Beijing around today or tomorrow.
BUT, now an additional step has been added to the process. China now requires an original signed LOA to be included in the package of Article 5 paperwork. This must be done before the travel approval will be processed. Those families who haven't received Article 5, the paperwork must be received before the Article 5 is processed.
Since the original is required, there's no email or wiring the document, our agency must mail it out....unfortuantely, adding extra time to our wait..extra weeks. Bummer!
We placed an original signed LOA in the mail yesterday, via Fed Ex. Fed Ex will pick up the document today and will arrive our agency by 10:30 tomorrow morning, 10/19. In turn, the agency will place it in the mail to China. They anticipate it will take about 3-4 days to arrive to the contact in Beijing.
Due to this new procedure our Article 5 will not be submitted to the CCAA for processing our TA until next week or worse case, the following week. It will depend upon how quickly Madison turns around our original signed LOA and places it in the mail for China and how quickly it is received. The agency anticipates turning it around by Tuesday afternoon or Wednesday morning.
Okay, let's look together at the new potential time line: (best guess scenario)
-10/19 original LOA reaches Madison
-10/20 Madison mails out original LOA
-10/25 Original LOA reaches contact in Beijing
-10/26 Original LOA & Article 5 sent to CCAA
The quicker TA's are currently taking approximately 2-3 weeks for processing. With God's favor, we'll be on the quicker time line--our daughter is anxious to come home and we are anxious to bring her home!!!!
We are keeping our prayes and thoughts on Miao and anxiously preparing for her homecoming!!! While it seems like it's never going to happen, in reality, it will be here soon!!!
Blessings
Thursday, October 14, 2010
ARTICLE 5 RECEIVED!!!!
WE'RE GETTING VERY CLOSE & VERY ANXIOUS!!!
Wow, what a great day it's been!!!
First, I spoke with my administrator today to share with her our anticipated travel plans. Something about speaking with her makes it all seem so real......yes, we've been planning for Miao's homecoming for over a year now but something about notifying your work that you'll be out for an extended amount of time is the realization that it's coming, very soon!!!
All the endless hours of time and effort vested into the paperwork involved with an international adoption, sending care packages to Miao, exchanging letters with her and waiting for over a year, viewing her picture, day-after-day, it begins to seem surreal and that it's never going to happen and when it does finally "happen" it sort of takes your breath away! By the grace of God--it's happening and very soon!!!!!
Once I drove away from the school, I immediately phoned Earl to share with him our conversation and the joy that Miao is welcome to finish out the school year, at my school!!! This will be great mother-daughter time each day driving back-and-forth from home to school. My commute is over 2 hours, each day so this will allow lots of time together. Guess I best start searching out music DVD's in Mandarin. :-)
Okay, the good news today, continues. We decided to have dinner out tonight and when returning home and jumping on the computer for any signs of a status on our adoption--THERE IT WAS---CONFIRMATION THAT OUR ARTICLE 5 WAS PROCESSED AND THE COURIER FROM OUR AGENCY PICKED IT UP, YESTERDAY--10/13!!!!!!!
Okay, just maybe...just maybe, we will be able to travel at Thanksgiving..that's our dream/best case scenario but if not, we are happy with the opportunity to travel by end of year!!!!! We want our beautiful daughter home for Christmas!!!
Miao wrote in her last letter to us, that she was counting the days until we bring her home....we are thrilled to share with her that we will be traveling very soon and she will no longer need to count the days!!!!
Blessings to all,
Sharee
Wow, what a great day it's been!!!
First, I spoke with my administrator today to share with her our anticipated travel plans. Something about speaking with her makes it all seem so real......yes, we've been planning for Miao's homecoming for over a year now but something about notifying your work that you'll be out for an extended amount of time is the realization that it's coming, very soon!!!
All the endless hours of time and effort vested into the paperwork involved with an international adoption, sending care packages to Miao, exchanging letters with her and waiting for over a year, viewing her picture, day-after-day, it begins to seem surreal and that it's never going to happen and when it does finally "happen" it sort of takes your breath away! By the grace of God--it's happening and very soon!!!!!
Once I drove away from the school, I immediately phoned Earl to share with him our conversation and the joy that Miao is welcome to finish out the school year, at my school!!! This will be great mother-daughter time each day driving back-and-forth from home to school. My commute is over 2 hours, each day so this will allow lots of time together. Guess I best start searching out music DVD's in Mandarin. :-)
Okay, the good news today, continues. We decided to have dinner out tonight and when returning home and jumping on the computer for any signs of a status on our adoption--THERE IT WAS---CONFIRMATION THAT OUR ARTICLE 5 WAS PROCESSED AND THE COURIER FROM OUR AGENCY PICKED IT UP, YESTERDAY--10/13!!!!!!!
Okay, just maybe...just maybe, we will be able to travel at Thanksgiving..that's our dream/best case scenario but if not, we are happy with the opportunity to travel by end of year!!!!! We want our beautiful daughter home for Christmas!!!
Miao wrote in her last letter to us, that she was counting the days until we bring her home....we are thrilled to share with her that we will be traveling very soon and she will no longer need to count the days!!!!
Blessings to all,
Sharee
Saturday, October 2, 2010
Cooler Temps + Fall= Holiday Season
Sterling and Pumpkins
The weather this weekend is BEAUTIFUL!! When summer temps remain in the 100's, day-after-day, the low 80's is consider, cooler weather!! We have clear blue skies, low 80 degree weather and pumpkin patches are starting to pop up everywhere!
We took advantage of the great weather and spent time at a pumpkin patch, clicking pictures of Sterling.
The weather this weekend is BEAUTIFUL!! When summer temps remain in the 100's, day-after-day, the low 80's is consider, cooler weather!! We have clear blue skies, low 80 degree weather and pumpkin patches are starting to pop up everywhere!
We took advantage of the great weather and spent time at a pumpkin patch, clicking pictures of Sterling.
NVC Cable to US Consulate in China
Another step closer to travel!!!
The NVC office cabled Miao's information to the US consulate in China on 9/25!!!! Only 6 days after our I800 approval, which was 9/16. Another stop closer to Miao's homecoming!!!
We faxed the confirmation letter the NVC mailed us to our agency's office on Friday afternoon, which is Friday evening in China. So, the earliest anything can happed is on Monday.
What happens next? Our agency's courier will pick up the cabled document from the US consulate and hand-carry it to the CCAA. We are experiencing trouble getting answers from our agency in regard to timing, when the carrier will pick up the paperwork, if the CCAA is closed for any holiday etc. We plan to contact them again on Monday for the details.
Exactly how close are we to travel.....let's see:
Hand-carry NVC cable to the CCAA
CCAA to prepare the Article 5
CCAA to release the Travel Approval (our agency will notify us when TA arrives)
CA scheduled by our agency (American Consulate Appt.)
Book travel
We are still hoping to travel by end of year.....it will all depend upon the available CA appointments...there are a limited amount of appointments and a lot of major events occuring in Guangzhou that can greatly affect travel. Please be in prayer with us that we may be united with Miao by end of year.
Blessings,
Earl & Sharee
The NVC office cabled Miao's information to the US consulate in China on 9/25!!!! Only 6 days after our I800 approval, which was 9/16. Another stop closer to Miao's homecoming!!!
We faxed the confirmation letter the NVC mailed us to our agency's office on Friday afternoon, which is Friday evening in China. So, the earliest anything can happed is on Monday.
What happens next? Our agency's courier will pick up the cabled document from the US consulate and hand-carry it to the CCAA. We are experiencing trouble getting answers from our agency in regard to timing, when the carrier will pick up the paperwork, if the CCAA is closed for any holiday etc. We plan to contact them again on Monday for the details.
Exactly how close are we to travel.....let's see:
Hand-carry NVC cable to the CCAA
CCAA to prepare the Article 5
CCAA to release the Travel Approval (our agency will notify us when TA arrives)
CA scheduled by our agency (American Consulate Appt.)
Book travel
We are still hoping to travel by end of year.....it will all depend upon the available CA appointments...there are a limited amount of appointments and a lot of major events occuring in Guangzhou that can greatly affect travel. Please be in prayer with us that we may be united with Miao by end of year.
Blessings,
Earl & Sharee
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Moon Festival
HAPPY MOON FESTIVAL!!
Today, 9/22/10 is the Mid-Autumn Moon Festival in China. This is a national holiday, celebrated throughout China. We've been praying and thinking of Miao today, as she celebrates this national holiday. We pray she had a great day, enjoyed time with her friends and enjoyed the care package we sent in honor of this holiday.
This holiday is time for friends and family throughout China to gather and give thanks....similiar to the western holiday, Thanksgiving. In China, friends and family gather in the evening, under the Harvest Moon to eat together and give thanks. Today, we are giving thanks for the blessing of being chosen to be Miao's parents.
Blessings,
Earl & Sharee
Today, 9/22/10 is the Mid-Autumn Moon Festival in China. This is a national holiday, celebrated throughout China. We've been praying and thinking of Miao today, as she celebrates this national holiday. We pray she had a great day, enjoyed time with her friends and enjoyed the care package we sent in honor of this holiday.
This holiday is time for friends and family throughout China to gather and give thanks....similiar to the western holiday, Thanksgiving. In China, friends and family gather in the evening, under the Harvest Moon to eat together and give thanks. Today, we are giving thanks for the blessing of being chosen to be Miao's parents.
Blessings,
Earl & Sharee
I800 Approval
YEA! ANOTHER STEP CLOSER!!
We're another step closer to Miao's homecoming!!! When calling the USCIS office today for a status on the approval, to our surprise, approval was granted on September 16!!!! AMAZING...amazing because we were told the paperwork would take 10-14 business to ship from the Texas lock-box to Missouri. Today was day 13 but approval was granted on business day 9!!!!
We anticipate recieving the hard copy in the mail, very soon. Tomorrow will be the one week mark and for some reason all of our USCIS paperwork has been received on a Thursday....so, perhaps we'll have the hard copy tomorrow!!!!!
Receiving the I800 approval is a big step in our thoughts....we now feel receiving the TA is "just around the corner." In reality, it's probably another 6 weeks or so......recently, TA's have been processed rather quickly but with the Moon Festival holiday in China, things may slow.
I'll post again when we receive the I800 approval in the mail. Let's hope you hear from us again, tomorrow.
Blessings,
Earl & Sharee
We're another step closer to Miao's homecoming!!! When calling the USCIS office today for a status on the approval, to our surprise, approval was granted on September 16!!!! AMAZING...amazing because we were told the paperwork would take 10-14 business to ship from the Texas lock-box to Missouri. Today was day 13 but approval was granted on business day 9!!!!
We anticipate recieving the hard copy in the mail, very soon. Tomorrow will be the one week mark and for some reason all of our USCIS paperwork has been received on a Thursday....so, perhaps we'll have the hard copy tomorrow!!!!!
Receiving the I800 approval is a big step in our thoughts....we now feel receiving the TA is "just around the corner." In reality, it's probably another 6 weeks or so......recently, TA's have been processed rather quickly but with the Moon Festival holiday in China, things may slow.
I'll post again when we receive the I800 approval in the mail. Let's hope you hear from us again, tomorrow.
Blessings,
Earl & Sharee
Sunday, September 19, 2010
I800 Status-10th Business Day Has Come
We finally hit business day #10 of waiting for our I800 to arrive the Missouri office!!! As you may recall from an earlier post, when calling for a status, we were instructed the I800 application had not reached Missouri...it was still at the lock-box in Texas and will take 10-14 business days to arrive the processing office, in Missouri.
Day 10 was on Friday, 9/17--mom's birthday! We are praying our I800 did in fact, reach the office and this upcoming week, we'll receive word it's been approved. We are trying very hard to wait until Tuesday, 9/21, business day 12, before calling the USCIS office for a status.
It will be music to our ears if when calling we are told it's been approved! Please pray with us the I800 is processed swiftly and without request for further information. We are hoping to receive the hard copy of the approval, no later than the last week in September.
Day 10 was on Friday, 9/17--mom's birthday! We are praying our I800 did in fact, reach the office and this upcoming week, we'll receive word it's been approved. We are trying very hard to wait until Tuesday, 9/21, business day 12, before calling the USCIS office for a status.
It will be music to our ears if when calling we are told it's been approved! Please pray with us the I800 is processed swiftly and without request for further information. We are hoping to receive the hard copy of the approval, no later than the last week in September.
Little Brother's First Holiday Season-The Fun of Halloween!
The weekend was spent searching out the right Halloween costume for Sterling. This will be his first holiday season and to start it off, is Halloween!
We are thrilled to be sharing the holiday season with Sterling and look forward to next year when Miao is home to share with us in the fun of Halloween, the gratitude of Thanksgiving and the blessing of Christmas!
Here are a pictures of Sterling in his Chef Costume:
We are thrilled to be sharing the holiday season with Sterling and look forward to next year when Miao is home to share with us in the fun of Halloween, the gratitude of Thanksgiving and the blessing of Christmas!
Here are a pictures of Sterling in his Chef Costume:
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